A married woman says she suspects her husband is gay. The disturbed married woman has narrated on the Facebook page of a relationship counselor called David Papa Bondze-Mbir.
Writing as an anonymous lady in distress, the lady revealed that her husband continues to cover up his sexuality despite her knowing he is attracted to men.
“My husband likes men more than he is into women. I had always suspected it but I couldn’t be sure until we married. Dave, he’s a nice guy and I don’t have any problems with him being ‘that’, however, that’s not the kind of man I would want to spend the rest of my life with,” she revealed.
“David, I know you may be surprised I’m the one actually sending in this, but I trust you wouldn’t treat my message any differently??
I don’t think my husband was meant for me. He likes the idea of having me as his wife. I also think, he thinks he is in love with me. I feel he was also rushed into marrying me. He’s not done anything really wrong to me, however, I’d wish he could be true to himself.
My husband likes men more than he is into women. I had always suspected it but I couldn’t be sure until we married. Dave, he’s a nice guy and I don’t have any problems with him being ‘that’, however, that’s not the kind of man I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I want to be with a STRAIGHT man. A man who is attracted by my breast and nakedness, and would want to play with my clito and Vjay.
I don’t want him to feel embarrassed about who I know he is, though he is always trying so hard to cover up. He is a nice guy, and I know he will find someone his type to love him the way he would want to be loved. I just don’t want to continue being his ‘lie’ in the name of marriage.
I want to be with a man who is into women, not a man who pretends to be into women.
Would it be right to file for a divorce or I need to talk with him to consider setting me free? I know? he will deny being interested in men, but I know he is. And, as a matter of fact, I don’t even care if he denies it, I am not interested in his kind. I want to find a man after my own heart.
I think I married him because we had been very good friends. We didn’t live together while dating, sex wasn’t a part of our dating. We just liked each other as great friends and ended up being together.
And because we’ve not been married for long, I am afraid to bring up the conversation of a divorce. It might scare him. That said, I don’t want to endure and stay in this marriage just to make him happy either. I am not happy. I don’t enjoy the sex with him. He doesn’t even want to have sex with me a lot of the time.
I made a terrible mistake by not keeping off initially, when I suspected his sexuality. Now that I want out, I am not certain of the right approach to use.
I want a divorce.”
It is the dream of every wife to have a husband who is totally attracted to her and her alone. No woman is interested in having a competitor in a marriage.
The distressed wife says “I want to be with a man who is into women, not a man who pretends to be into women. Would it be right to file for a divorce or I need to talk with him to consider setting me free?” The concerns of this worried woman is an issue happening in many marriages in Ghana today especially when there is now the pressure for men to get married mostly to prove their heterosexuality. “He is a nice guy, and I know he will find someone his type to love him the way he would want to be loved. I just don’t want to continue being his ‘lie’ in the name of marriage,” she revealed.
Gay rights in Ghana are overly spoken against in the country with the Pentecost Church in Ghana plan of staging a major protest in the country should pressure on Ghana over the issue continues.
